Subject: There is some precedent.
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Posted on: 2013-07-11 22:54:00 UTC
Mazarun Zothyrr, who was written by Rilwen Shadowflame, is similarly a male drow agent. I'm not completely familiar with his stories, but giving them a look yourself probably couldn't hurt. You might also look to Agent Suicide's new and improved backstory for reference to resurrection.
I like the idea that he has agoraphobia and allergies to unfamiliar pollen, and I think it makes sense that he'd swing back and forth in his reactions a bit until he learns where his new boundaries are. I will say, FicPsych is your friend! Lots of strong yet compassionate women there to help him adjust. Also a Minbari and an a-gendered former Starfleet counselor-in-training. {= ) (Speaking of us possibly co-writing something...)
Hopefully his partner is able to learn along with him and not be completely messed up by having to deal with such an unstable person.
~Neshomeh