Subject: Gendery questions!
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Posted on: 2016-05-27 07:29:00 UTC

I usually don't notice / remember what I look like in my dreams - it's not something that sticks with me frequently. However, I can't remember having a dream in which I'm not some reflection or version of myself - I am me, awake or asleep. That self is sometimes very different from reality (I had one fairly recently where I was a robot girl), but in-context, it's always me.

As far as gender goes, though - that's a much harder question to answer. I was assigned male at birth, lived that way for a reasonable length of time, and while I'm now genderfluid through three-ish genders that don't include masculinity, I'm still early enough in my transition that I can pass as a guy without much work. So, "genders other than my own" is a surprisingly small set of options... Overt masculinity has never really been a perception of self in my dreams, and that's been consistent since well before I started digging in to gender stuff. Aside from that, though, sometimes I'm as I am, sometimes I'm as I wish I was, sometimes I'm in between, and very frequently, the shape of my body just doesn't come up.

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