Subject: TED Talk: Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator
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Posted on: 2020-01-25 16:37:55 UTC
So, someone showed me a TED Talk done by Ted Urban, a blogger, about why we procrastinate, and I would like to recommend it.
Here is the link: Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator
To summarize the talk, procrastination and wasting time occur because each one of us has two people in our minds: A rational decision-maker, who does what makes sense how and is willing to do hard and unenjoyable things for the sake of something greater, and an instant gratification monkey, who only wants to do what is fun at the moment. In a non-procrastinator's mind, the rational decision-maker is in control, so the person is capable of doing things that make sense. In a procrastinator's mind, the instant gratification monkey takes control and eats up all the time we have on doing things that are fun in the moment, but are not necessary now. This leads to procrastinators being stuck in the "dark playground:" in which they are supposedly having fun, but not really, as they are ridden with guilt, anxiety, and dread.
The one thing the instant gratification monkey fears, however, is the panic monster. When deadlines get too close, when time is crunched and things take longer than expected, the panic monster appears and is able to shoo the monkey away, allowing the rational decision-maker to take control once again. This is what allows procrastinators to somehow meet deadlines even though they did not leave themselves enough time to properly finish their tasks.
And yet, even though they meet their deadlines, procrastinators are still unhappy. Why? Not because they cannot finish the things that have deadlines, no: Because they cannot finish the things that do not have deadlines. Because the panic monster, it turns out, only appears when things absolutely cannot be put off until later. But you know what you can always put off to later? Pursuing your passions. Developing good health habits. Writing. Drawing. Getting a better job. Making that Board post you really want to make. And that is the real burden of the procrastinator.
I feel like this talk spoke to me on a personal level, because I procrastinate on a lot of things. I cannot tell you how many hours I've wasted in that dark playground, browsing Reddit or checking on the Discord. And did it make me happy? No. Because I have a short story I want to write, and because I have a drawing I want to finish, and those things just aren't getting done. I procrastinated on writing my Permission attempt a lot. I procrastinated on taking steps to becoming a better person. And I can't afford to do that, because there is only so much time. What matters is not the present, but the past and future as a whole.
But this video helped, because it gave me the jolt I needed to finally start breaking out of that dark playground. I'm still getting distracted quite a lot, and things are still taking me a much longer time than necessary when I don't have a deadline (seriously, writing one paragraph shouldn't take a whole hour to do). But I felt very accomplished yesterday, because I procrastinated less. I didn't get on the Internet; I sat down and fulfilled my responsibilities.
And at this point, after watching a video once? I think that's all I can expect of myself.