Subject: Oh, this. I remember this.
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Posted on: 2022-06-09 15:30:23 UTC

Yet another person deciding we're Teh Ebulz without doing any research or, y'know, actually talking to us. Yawn.

In fairness, sporking does mean squaring yourself with the fact that you may offend or discourage someone in some way. Personally, I'm content that we are doing the best we can not to hurt anyone, and if people somehow find out we've sporked their stuff, the ball is then in their court when it comes to choosing what to do about it. If people are gonna take a random stranger's criticism of their writing and characters as a personal attack regardless of it being explicitly not a personal attack (how can it be if we know nothing about them personally, eh?), there's nothing we can do about it.

And, I mean, I would also rather assume that people are not generally so emotionally fragile that a single negative experience can push them over the edge into declaring they Shall Never Write Again? Especially if they've decided to post their work out in public? I'm sorry, but I don't want to live in a world where no one ever says anything critical of a creative work ever, so I'm not going to bite my tongue on the off-chance that I might happen to upset someone who shouldn't have gone public in the first place. I learned a long time ago that everyone has to take personal responsibility for themselves; it's not my job to do it for them.

Citation needed on that stuff about egging on trolls, too. Where? When? Links or it didn't happen.

~Neshomeh

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