Subject: I had avoided mentioning her name to begin with for a reason
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Posted on: 2011-12-12 00:26:00 UTC

It's not fair to single July out as 'the only thing wrong with the community,' but she is indeed one of the main reasons I'm leaving - if just because she's taken it upon herself to snipe at me anytime she ever speaks to me. And the large amount of time that she just ignores me, it's a constant ticking timebomb on how long it takes until she can't bear to listen to me before she decides she needs to put me in my place.

I would, and have, tried to figure out what her problem with me is, but she had just decided I'm only worth the time it takes to form as biting and cruel sentences as she can to dismiss me. From what I've seen July rarely sees any kind of discouragement by the community not to do that, so it's pretty obvious they've chosen July over me (which I don't fault them for - she's an older member and far more active). I have heard of and watched many incidents of July just deciding that someone isn't PPC material and taking it upon herself to drive them out, which just makes me more upset that I'm apparently being equated to people like Joe.

I am not informed enough (as July loves to frequently point out) to say with authority to what extent July has negatively impacted the positive attitude of the chat, but it is my personal opinion that she has in fact negatively impacted the atmosphere of the chat. That her behavior has been left unchecked and even encouraged isn't her fault, but it doesn't change the fact that she is one of the primary reasons that I'm leaving.

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