I've been trying to stay out of these, because I don't like drama. But that was uncalled for.
You said, and I quote:
IF I EVER GET MY HANDS ON YOU, I'LL DRIVE A CROWBAR INTO YOUR HEAD, YOU CRAZY, TWISTED, LOLI FREAK!!!
Uncalled for. I do not care what they posted-- there was not even this much rage when the PPC found out about badfics using the Bible as a canon, a while back. And we had fundamentalist Christians on the 'Board. And they were calmer about their feelings than you were, there.
And I've just seen your second response! And have asked July not to respond, because every time this starts, it gets a little worse, and I'm trying to prevent another all-out war, so Neshomeh doesn't have to get involved.
Read the Constitution, please. No flaming, make posts legible. What July is objecting to is the ALLCAPS rant, basically telling the person you'd attack them with a crowbar if you could, and calling them a "crazy, twisted LOLI freak." Firstly, nobody here should be calling anyone a freak like that. We're a community of misfits who instruct newbies to leave their sanity at the door-- glass houses, anyone? Freak isn't a bad thing, and using "crazy, twisted freak" as an insult (over a comic!) is absolutely unnecessary. Even if they made fun of 9/11. People have done so, and will continue to do so. We deal with anger here by laughing at the stupid. We don't attack, we don't rage, we don't threaten.
We write silly stories to make the stupid feel less brain-numbing.
Also, to censor paraphrase: Intent is Not Magic. If you did not intend to make July angry, but you incidentally made quite a lot of people uncomfortable, your best bet is not to go "Uh, but didn't he deserve it?" Like I said, we write silly stories. We do other things, but we're not... a community of flamers and bashers and jerks. That is July's objection. I am responding because her net connection ended and she couldn't see your post I am sick of the wars between you and her, and even if I agree with her it's still quite tiresome.
Basically, if you want to get along with people here, stop going on the offensive. If you want to get along with July, just apologize when you're in the wrong, rather than trying to justify every time. I'm not saying you should just roll over every time she (or anyone) criticises you, but sometimes you will be in the wrong! It is an inevitable fact of life, and going "but what they did was worse!" is not going to win you any friends. It should also be noted, by the way, that I am pointing this message at July as well. People do not need to be told every single time they were wrong, and being wrong is okay. Apologizing for being wrong is also okay! And everyone should be able to do that.
That means when you cross a line with a post, you look back at it and think "What would someone think coming across this post from another perspective? Is the anger I am getting valid?" and if the answer is yes, you apologize. And if you think you are being jumped on for no reason, you calmly and rationally explain why you disagree.
And we have a mature, adult conversation! That is how a forum keeps from spiralling into flame-wars.