Subject: Re: I'm not arguing that.
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Posted on: 2009-04-07 12:57:00 UTC

I think you may have missed part of my point.

I do see your point, but also don't entirely agree, especially when it's a more or less a pretty nonoffensive term.

That's the thing - what counts as inoffensive? We all have different standards. If we tried to hash out a list of acceptable and inacceptable words, we'd be here forever and we'd never all agree. So we err on the safe side, and we stick to the unspoken rules of the group, because that way we're demonstrating mutual respect for everyone in it. And, of course, the converse is true - if we deliberately break the unspoken linguistic conventions of the group, we set ourselves apart from the rest, which isn't good in terms of social cohesion.

(Chase, if you're reading this, I'm not actually having a go. I'm just a linguist at heart and find the reasons behind swearing fascinating.)

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