Subject: S'fine. =]
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Posted on: 2015-08-10 08:25:00 UTC
You're right, it is mostly used as an insult. Not here, though. It's... rather more obvious than that when I'm insulting people. =]
Subject: S'fine. =]
Author:
Posted on: 2015-08-10 08:25:00 UTC
You're right, it is mostly used as an insult. Not here, though. It's... rather more obvious than that when I'm insulting people. =]
Believe it or not, I like you guys, and you really aren't the sort of people I'd want to upset. You're all good people, and I'm sorry if I've distressed or hurt you with my opinions.
It's probably best if I take a few weeks off from the boards to let things calm down. I'll try and think things over while I'm gone. You've certainly given me a lot to think about.
At least in my book.
I think a short vacation is a good idea. Think about your attitute towards those issues. Now, I'm not telling you to definitely change your views (you obviously had your reasons to form them) but I appreciate the fact that our words reached you and made you think things through.
Well, maybe 'okay' isn't the right word, but you're doing what you can to mend things, and that's certainly admirable.
I'm still a rookie, so maybe it's not my place to say, but you stepped back, apologized, and you're taking time away and letting things cool off. I've been in similar situations by making sections of a community angry or upset, and I can appreciate the maturity behind your decision.
I don't think anger makes you a bad person. I think it's what you do with it.
I only stayed away for about a week, but during that time I began a study (still ongoing), and I've learned a lot. I think you will too, and I wish you luck.
Think about it, and then talk about it with a qualified therapist. You have serious issues with anger. Get them sorted, for your own sake.
I don't know how the Constitution is applied as well as, say, hS, but... I feel like you're crossing the line a little, there? Please remember article 7, especially. Second chances and all that. There are few things that warrant "go see a therapist, because you have serious anger issues," and (IMO) someone backing off relatively politely is not one of them.
(Sorry if I misinterpreted anything here, or sounded passive-aggressive -- I'm not trying to be, I promise! It's just hard to know how hesitance will come across through text.)
I just saw the worse part of that conversation, so I'm sorry if it sounded like I wasn't taking it seriously. I am not in any way condoning any part of what Pippa said in that conversation. I'm saying that... basically, please let's not escalate hostility again? Agh, it's too late for me to words, ignore me if I'm being stupid. >_
I just saw the worse part of that conversation, so I'm sorry if it sounded like I wasn't taking it seriously. I am not in any way condoning any part of what Pippa said in that conversation. I'm saying that... basically, please let's not escalate hostility again? Agh, it's too late for me to words, ignore me if I'm being stupid. >_
She is giving actual, concerned advice. While being a tad aggressive about it, she is not anywhere near the line, never mind cross it. Relax.
I've never actually seen that used sincerely before, only as an insult, so it registered as one. Sorry about that.
You're right, it is mostly used as an insult. Not here, though. It's... rather more obvious than that when I'm insulting people. =]