Subject: Hold on, folks.
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Posted on: 2010-10-18 19:50:00 UTC

SttQ, I don't think anyone wants you to leave over a disagreement with one person. It is your decision, but I would hate to think a single incident ruined your whole experience here.

July, I've noticed recently that you've been getting on people's nerves a fair bit. I'm not suggesting that you change your personality or anything, but would it kill you to choose your words with more care? We could stand a lot less in-fighting with you in the middle of it.

All in all, I don't think there was anything wrong with SttQ adding her two cents here. I often wish people who shared opinions would speak up more so that others could know the opinion is shared by many and not just a few. Rehashing the same points over again DOES get tiresome, but still, there's nothing wrong with making your voice heard.

Finally, when it comes to real people, this old adage is the best: "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." Read "respectful" or "constructive" for nice if you will, but please bear it in mind just the same.

~Neshomeh

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