Subject: Going on your last point...
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Posted on: 2012-12-03 07:45:00 UTC
I agree, the groups of people who know blah blah fandom are a bit... Off-putting. For people like me, who are - to quote TV Tropes - Jacks of All Trades when it comes to vacations, good but not great at many things, it's a bit like you're the third wheel that doesn't fit in anywhere.
I've been there. I AM there in real life, even.
What I've also noticed is that certain members seem to respond more openly to some boarders than others. I try to make myself an open person to all members here, but I have this issue as well, where I'll get to talking with somebody, and then somebody will interject their opinion, and I'll just completely blow them off. I think there should be a greater effort to be welcoming and friendly all the time, and not just when introducing yourself to newbies.
Friendships are fine, but one of the rules of this site, if not stated then implied, is that all opinions are welcomed, and all conversion should be taken with a smile rather than a smirk. Is like to try and reinforce this a bit more.