Subject: Good question...
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Posted on: 2008-09-10 17:58:00 UTC

Let me preface this by saying that I am a rather girly boy. The vast majority of my friends in high school were girls. I read Pride and Prejudice because I wanted to. I appreciate a good romance every bit as much as a good adventure, and get just as annoyed as Mom does when Dad asks the inevitable "did they win?".

I agree with Leto, by the way - Mercedes Lackey is a tremendous author, and definitely one of my favorites. She's on my list, along with Lewis, Tolkien, Kim Stanley Robinson, and Neal Stephenson.

Anyways, back to the question at hand. There are times, both while reading published fiction and fanfiction, that it's quite obvious that the story was written by a woman for women. They fall into two main categories - bad thinking and bad biology.

Bad thinking is (fortunately) by far the most prevalent. There have been lots of moments in stories where I've thought "wait, guys don't think like that." It's usually minor enough that I think of it as an error like a plothole or a typo.

Obviously, there is enough variation in guys that as long as a character stays in-character for himself, he can think a little bit (or a large bit) strangely. It's just the occasional "wait, what?" moments that are confusing.

When it happens, bad biology is a lot more annoying. I won't go into details here, because the more common mistakes are definitely not PG-13. (E-mail me if you're morbidly curious - Techno.Dann(at)gmail.)

My advice for writers is fairly simple - if you're worried about making mistakes when it comes to writing the opposite gender, find someone who is said opposite gender who you can ask the embarrassing questions.

I really don't feel set apart from the community because of my gender - thanks to the Internet, everyone is a user name and a few paragraphs of text. Sure, I know that the vast majority of you out there are girls, but that isn't shoved in my face on a regular basis like it would be if we met face-to-face. The biggest things that stand out to me are errors in writing.

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