Subject: Re: On the subject of Big Sib/Little Sib...
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Posted on: 2012-06-06 02:08:00 UTC

Fairly obviously, I would volunteer to be part of a group of Big Siblings if/when it gets started up, although seeing as I haven’t done it before, if anyone had any advice from their time as a Big Sib, I’d be interested in hearing it. But I guess that’s the sort of thing that could be set up for the whole group once it’s been established.

As for automatically giving every newbie a Big Sib, I'm not so sure about that, for a couple of reasons. Firstly (and most importantly), if we wait to see if newbies request a Sib, then we can instantly sort them into two categories: those that think they need one, and those that don’t (some of these may even be correct!).

By allowing them to sort themselves into those two groups for us, we might be able to tailor the choice of Big Sib to newbie, rather than just assigning people randomly and trusting to pot luck that we get a decent match. In fact, taking that last thought a bit further, it might be worth setting up a Big Sibling Directory on the Wiki, similar to the Beta Reader Directory, (giving details of their fandoms, writing habits etc. – basically the same kind of stuff you’re saying we should be asking the newbies for) so that they would be able to pick out a Sibling that they had more to talk about with than just ‘how do I do this thing on the Board?’.

[And while I'm on the subject of how to do things on the Board, can anyone tell me how to a web link in a post and have it appear as part of the text? I’ve worked out how to do bold, underlined, italic font etc. by copying the formatting from the Wiki editing guide, but whenever I copy a web address over it just gives the full link, and it looks kind of messy.]

So, anyway, got a little off-topic there. My second reason for not wanting to automatically give Siblings out is that it could be seen as pushy, and frankly, a little insulting to anyone who has actually bothered to read through all the Guides etc. Asking people if they want a Sib is one thing, telling them that they need one, is something else entirely. I would rather hold off on simply giving a Big Sib to someone unless and until they demonstrated that they do require one.

With regards to asking newbies questions, are you thinking that should be something that’s done in their introductory post, or something that their Big Sib should go through them with? Having a bunch of questions requiring in depth, detailed answers be fired off at them the first time they say ‘Hi’ could be a tad intimidating.

‘If anything, it should be sort of like an interview.’

Speaking as someone who has just started looking around for a new job, interviews can be terrifying. Having one sprung on you unexpectedly? That doesn’t sound like a pleasant experience to me.
And now that you've made me think about that, if I get nightmares about it in the near future, I’m blaming you!

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