Subject: I am wondering a few things.
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Posted on: 2012-06-05 02:31:00 UTC

Mainly, what is an acceptable period of time to wait to respond if you see somebody doing something you think is wrong? For instance, I see you've insulted July by calling her "insanely vigilant," as though questioning her mental stability is an appropriate response to disagreeing with her habit of correcting wayward behavior as soon as she sees it. I've waited about nine hours, and I'm still the first person to point it out. Should I have waited longer? A day, maybe? Two?

How long should July have waited before responding to those posts by ThArcanist? When would someone else have gotten around to it, do you think? How long should any of us wait and see whether someone else will get to it first before it's okay for us to respond?

I would also like to know what exactly July is allowed to respond to. You note that she's generally either responding to things that aren't issues, or she's responding to things that someone else would get to eventually anyway (in theory). Is it ever okay for July to respond?

Furthermore, do you find it's always true that there is never a real problem if only one person or half a dozen people are complaining? I'm pretty sure there are examples in history that strongly indicate otherwise, so I'm wondering what gives you the opposite impression.

I really would have liked to not be the one to bring this stuff up, because I'm sick of being on the opposite side of disagreements with you, and it really sucks, but I didn't honestly have much hope that it would be otherwise. First of all, it's you, and second of all, it's July. Who else is going to stick their neck out? Apparently no one, not in less than nine hours, at least.

I think you owe July an apology.

~Neshomeh

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