Subject: I'm relieved.
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Posted on: 2012-06-05 22:49:00 UTC

Also helped by your reply to July up in the Board-update thread. I know I'm being ratty over this myself, so I'm glad you were even willing to respond to me here.

I actually do agree with you on several points (having to take a break to get a break, for one), and I think I haven't been clear what my issues actually are, so I want to try to clear that up. I agree that we are pretty good about dealing with big stuff, like trolls and other obviously malicious types; it's the little things that build up that are worrying me. It's the sheer amount of correcting that seems to need doing these days more than whatever particular thing is being corrected at a given time. It's stuff like the two unrelated instances last year of July being criticized for using "fancy words" and an "extensive vocabulary" to intimidate people—I mean, really, this is not a place where people should be intimidated by big words, right?

The thing is, my own tendency is to take each individual thing on its own, so I understand the instinct to forgive and forget, but clueless stuff like this has been going on for a long time, as Araeph reminded me in the oldbies thread. Tomash's post made me realize that's what is getting to me: the steady influx of cluelessness and not getting it that July has been on the forefront of combating, largely at the cost of her own image and reputation because it's so easy to ignore.

The PPC I joined was one where the members had long conversations about obscure canon details and were clearly way more knowledgeable than I was about such things—that's why I joined. The PPC we've got now is one where we're constantly reminding people that we don't bash authors, and please contain your badfic reports so they don't flood the Board, and please don't use fanspeak, and please at least try to do some research on your own before you ask questions, we've got a really awesome resource for it now; etc., etc. I agree that each individual incidence is not a big deal, but what I want to get across is that I think all of it together is, and what we're doing right now is not good enough.

I'm going to stop here, though, because I think Irish Samurai has some really excellent thoughts about an alternative solution to mods. I don't think I said this clearly, but my first choice is for more action on the part of the community to self-regulate about this little stuff, but that can't happen if we don't recognize the little stuff as a big problem, collectively. That's why it's so scary to hear you and VM going "We're just fine, we don't have any problems we can't deal with doing exactly what we've done forever, only a few people are making noise so there can't really be a problem," etc. I don't think we can be the community of intelligent and thoughtful people we're so fond of insisting we are if we continue to love and tolerate all the cluelessness.

Hopefully that is more sense-making than I have been thusfar, and I am also sorry for the general frustration and rattiness.

~Neshomeh

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