Subject: I know you don't think that.
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Posted on: 2011-09-02 17:59:00 UTC

I don't, either; I doubt any of us do. However, suppose the original archetype character had been Ralph. My question is, why should calling a negative archetype Ralph be less offensive than calling it Mary Sue? I get why it is--you mentioned male privilege--but why should it be? Is it fair and equal if we aren't allowed to give a negative thing a female name, ever, even when it's accurate? My argument is that some underlying assumptions are at fault here, not the terminology we use; operating under a different paradigm is what we really want, and the only way to get it is to start behaving as though it exists.

I realize I may be undercutting what I said about needing a Gary Stu to go with Mary Sue, but the truth is I'm sort of on the fence about all this. I'm debating with you all to convince myself as much as anything else. I want what's best for women and the PPC, and if I thought changing the words would help, I'd be all for it, but I have yet to be convinced that it would be worth the effort. (I note here that no one has seized on either of the two gender-neutral suggestions proposed so far, or even commented about them.) People are still racist regardless of what "politically correct" words we use for black people, and yet, homosexual people proudly identify as gay and gain acceptance despite the idiots who fling the word around as an insult. At the moment my position is that I'd rather the term "Mary Sue" be more like "gay," and we should defend its correct definition rather than retreat from it. But, at the same time, if the evidence mounts up that changing it would make a difference to how people feel and act toward us (women and/or the PPC), then I'm willing to change.

So, I'm sorry to cut in again before you have the chance to write your essay, but my hope is that I've made myself a little clearer.

~Neshomeh

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