Subject: Heh, well, there's a whole thing.
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Posted on: 2016-11-15 04:58:00 UTC

These issues are ethical as well as legal, and we can debate them until we're blue in the face and go nowhere.

I think we're confusing two issues. The rights of customers not to be discriminated against, and the rights of free association - basically, to what extent can people say "I don't want to be associated with this practice"? On the face of it, I would say - certainly if, say, someone walks into a bakery with a double lightning bolt on their forehead… a baker might understandably not want to serve them, but would anyway. If a customer walks into a bakery with a swastika on their forehead and says "I need a cake for my organization's annual meeting," that's closer to the equivalent situation of a wedding.

The difference, of course, is that the KKK member (or White Brotherhood, or White Nationalist, or Son of Odin, or whatever) is choosing to engage in bigotry, while the gay persons did not choose to be gay. But in the latter situation, both are choosing to purchase a good or service to celebrate the Thing Baker Doesn't Agree With. And you know what, the law is still on the side of not discriminating based on your beliefs. For both.

For the record, if you read the history of anti-miscegenation laws and discourse, religion played a massive role. People honestly did cite Christianity as the reason why interracial marriage should be banned. So you really should stop making that association. People have cited their Christian beliefs to stop the abolition of slavery, interracial marriage, women's suffrage, and most recently, gay marriage. It's not a novel debate.

As to the rest… well, I'll come up with it later. But really, I do think "We'll be forced to stop teaching our kids that your relationship is hateful to God" isn't even founded. After all, Obama never even considered, not once, trying to outlaw the Westboro Baptist Church. Rahm Emanuel was castigated by the liberal sides of the press for trying to keep Chil Fil A out of Chicago. Yes, liberals would like to see LGBTQ kids not get bullied in school, and would also come down on the side of teachers not telling them they're going to hell. But… dude, no one is going to argue about what you can or can't legally say in your home, in public, or wherever. You'll just have to deal with the consequences of more and more people disagreeing with you. Which is the way it's always been. Electing republicans will not make the social pressure go away. That is the nature of a free society, dude. People express their opinions.

Again… I have a hard time squaring that as an equal concern with the politicians on the right arguing to jail, brainwash, or kill queers like me.

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