Subject: Thoughts
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Posted on: 2016-11-18 16:35:00 UTC

You've perfectly illustrated the difference between the sides of the debate here: the unwashed cisgender majority can play ideological referee and talk about hypocrisy all they want because they aren't affected by this. The right-wing fundamentalists who rage against trans people do so because they feel that their gods tell them to. We on the trans side are fighting because people are literally trying to destroy us. The tools in question vary: legislation, economics, or violence, but the end goal is the same.

So, no, I reject your assumption that all sides are somehow equal in this. There is not a moral equal footing here. Nor is this a safe ideological debate for one of the involved parties. The Trans Day of Remembrance is coming up this weekend, where we mourn our dead. There are eighty-seven names on the list this year, and that's just counting people who we know were trans and we know were murdered.

That's what, a good-sized car bomb's worth?

So. Please stop trying to compare a violent hate group to people who are frequent victims of hate crimes. That is not terribly cool.

In case you haven't read Data Junkie's response, the kkk doesn't much care about civil rights. They exist to apply the law of the jungle to whoever they wish; in fact, membership requires stepping over legal bounds and committing hate crimes.

I reject your allegations of hypocrisy. I believe in simple things like "don't commit violent crime" and "don't support ideologies of hatred." Perhaps I'm ethically gerrymandering to protect my cause, but those seem to both censure the hypothetical kkk member and not say very much about queer people.

Because, once again, comparing people with a minority identity to a literal violent hate group is ridiculous.

If you want a better comparison, I, a hypothetical queer business owner, would not refuse to bake a cake / build a website / whatever for a christian wedding, even if it were, say, a baptist one. Even that is an ideology they have chosen to hold so it's not a fair comparison, but my dislike of what they believe isn't reason to deny them service.

However, I reserve the right to refuse service to all who hold an ideology of hatred. If there were a queer group that advocated and performed, say, church burnings, I would refuse then service too.

(And seriously, the usa is pretty messed up.)

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