Subject: Sin.
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Posted on: 2016-11-14 15:27:00 UTC

I'll leave climate change alone, since I've already vented my spleen over it and others are carrying that topic just fine without me.

So, sin.

I get the Christian position that sin is sin, period. I get that a lot of Christians feel that celebrating a gay wedding would be as wrong as celebrating murder.

But the thing is, not all sin is equal. You don't try to outlaw exclaiming "Jesus Christ!" in a heated moment; you don't work to legally force people to stay in harmful marriages, or ostracize people who have affairs; you don't even try to refuse service to the many, many people who commit other kinds of sex-related sin, like having oral sex out of marriage, for instance.

Even if someone were to walk into your flower shop wearing no wedding ring and a big button that says "I am a cunning linguist!" with a blatantly suggestive mouth on it, you'd still be obligated to sell that person flowers, even if you're sure they're going to be given to that person's significant other as a prelude to getting freaky, because what they get up to in private is none of your bloody business, and it's not up to you to judge them. That's God's job. Pray for them if you want to; ask if they're interested in talking about Jesus if you want to; but if they say no, then you back the hell off. If we sexual deviants all end up getting destroyed in the Apocalypse, that choice is our right as beings with free will.

Christians do not treat all sin the same. The kind of sin that two (or more!) people get up to consensually, that doesn't actually harm any other person, is not the same as murder, or rape, or theft, or anything else that is (a) nonconsensual, and (b) destructive to health and property. Trying to convince others that it is is both offensive and hypocritical. Please quit it.

Oh, and yes, if the KKK guy wanted the cake guy to make a cake that said something along the lines of "Hooray for 100 years of brutally tormenting black people!", he could in fact refuse that, 'cause it would be against the law. Hate speech is not protected under the First Amendment, and I hope to whatever power there may be that we never allow that to change.

Now, on the book. I haven't read it either, so I guess we're even. It doesn't really matter, because the thing is, the racist has every right to believe what he believes and even to pass it on to his children, too, even as the public school system lauds the end of slavery and the heroism of people like Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. What he doesn't have is the right to spout off about how dirty and/or sick and/or evil black people are in public, to threaten people who disagree with eternal fire and torment, or to interfere with other people's freedom to marry interracially if they want to. A racist baker would be just as obligated to sell that cake to an interracial couple as a Christian baker is to sell to a gay couple. He also does not have the right to be free from the judgement of others for his beliefs—nobody does. He may believe his racism is perfectly justified, but that doesn't make his position respectable or correct, and we don't have to put up with it in public—including public schools.

In public, under the law, everyone is equal (or should be). But that has never stopped anyone from being free to believe what they choose and live according to those beliefs in their private lives, and it never will.

Unless Trump and Pence decide to actually kick out all the Muslims, put women in jail for making difficult decisions about their own bodies, and force gay kids into electroshock conversion camps, I guess. 'Cuz, y'know, small government, right? {= |

~Neshomeh is admittedly arguing more from a place of passion than of logic, but hopes her logic is clear and present, too.

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