Subject: Here's what you need to know.
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Posted on: 2019-08-08 01:23:00 UTC

2. The community will not tolerate any individual or group who intentionally discriminates against, abuses, persecutes, or otherwise attacks others in any way, shape, or form, for any reason. This includes, but is not limited to discrimination on the basis of sex, race, ability, national origin, sexual orientation, gender identity, and religion.

3. The community will not tolerate the use of language which evokes any form of discrimination or persecution. The subjects mentioned above, and others which cause genuine suffering (such as rape, murder, abuse, and mental health issues) should be discussed with sensitivity. Even 'joking' about these subjects is Not Funny; ‘it was just a joke’ is not an excuse - it’s self-incrimination.

The PPC Constitution (read it)
If you are capable of dropping the kind of language that your right-wing friends use to marginalize and discriminate against women and other people, and of interacting with us in a positive way, then you're welcome to stay.

If you don't think you can do that, then yeah, maybe this isn't the right place for you.

For the record, this decision is currently 100% in your hands. I hope you can make choices that will let you stay, and learn more constructive ways to handle your feelings.

Bear in mind, though, that "I didn't know that was offensive" is not an excuse. When people tell you that something you said is offensive, that is a cue to stop, listen, and change your behavior. Apologizing never hurts, either, but saying you're sorry doesn't cut it if you keep doing the same thing over and over again. "Show, don't tell" applies in real life as much as writing.

In the spirit of being constructive: I understand you have an Aspergers diagnosis. If you genuinely don't understand what we're trying to tell you, let us know (as calmly and rationally as you can, please). We can always try to explain things in a different way, and hopefully find something that works. (If nothing works, well, that's a problem, but we'll cross that bridge if/when we come to it.)

~Neshomeh

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